Graveyards and Jeggings

I am fascinated with old graveyards, today I did something I have wanted to do since I moved to this town. There is an old cemetery by my house, so today, on our walk, Storm and I went there. It is a family plot but all of the headstones are old, from the 1800’s through 1968.

It was sad being there, it is fenced off but it is neglected, overrun by weeds and long grass. I had an incredible urge to clean it up, to let the people who are resting there that they have not been forgotten.

But the sad thing is, they have been forgotten, I don’t know them, I don’t know the family name. If I did I would ask them why they allowed their ancestors resting place to become so forlorn and sad.

It reminded me of one of my favorite paintings by Adolf Hiremy-Hirschi, it is of a graveyard that is abandoned and neglected. Weather worn, with waves crashing into it, long forgotten by loved ones.

I often wonder how many generations it takes to forget loved ones. One, two? Maybe three, if we don’t take the time to make our grandparents and great grandparents and even further back, real to our children and grandchildren, they will be forgotten.

It’s one of the reasons I tell my stories over and over to my children and Tessa. I am hoping they stick and that my memories will not be forgotten and will live on.

I think that is human nature, to want to be remembered, to want the history of ones family to be remembered.

Enough of that, I have to tell you about the best thing I have bought to date. I am so stupidly excited about this find, ok, so you all know I became obsessed with Spanx leggings this past winter. Well, I decided to try the Spanx jeggings, yes, I said it, jeggings. I have been dying to try them but I wanted good quality ones, not cheap ones.

So I saw the Spanx ones on sale, because they are stupidly expensive otherwise, and decided to dive in.

Wow, they are amazing, the fit is fantastic, the fabric is nice and thick, not thin and they hold everything in where it should be held in.

I highly suggest them to anyone wanting to try them, they are true to size so don’t size up or down.

Zulily has the best prices of anywhere I’ve seen, if you decide to get them try that site.

Well that is all I have for now, I’ll post pictures of the graveyard and of my favorite painting.

Lettuceless Salads and Sweater Dress

Well it’s Tuesday and it’s snowing, I am happy, remember snow = God’s love, it blankets you and makes everything beautiful. My mom, who knew how much I love snow, used to tell me that snow was God’s way of telling me he loves me. I was so happy to see it this morning, like a long lost friend who has come to visit, no matter the length of the visit, they are always welcome.
Today is sweater dress and purple boots day, thank you to Elizabeth Anne for the boots, they are still my favorites. They match my purple purse that was also from Elizabeth Anne, I am a lucky mom. I’m having a really good outfit day; I should take a picture, because I look good, except for the remnants of the fever blister. Talk about being brought back to reality, it’s always something.
I would like to take a moment and give a huge shout out to Spanx, I love them, I believe they are the best invention ever, they make me look good. Especially considering the food fest I was on in December, Spanx is my best friend right now.
So I got these new things, Salad additions by Lean Cuisine, so far I am enamored, I tried the Asian chicken one yesterday and today I will be trying the southwest chicken. I am a huge fan of salad, as long as there is minimal or no lettuce. I am not a huge fan of lettuce; I am a huge fan of the lettuceless salad, what is that you ask. Well, it is everything but the lettuce, all the good stuff, the chicken, the croutons, the cheese, all that stuff. Not to worry, I am putting lettuce in these, I am trying to be good after being bad for so long.
I won’t go on and on today, I just want to enjoy the snow while it lasts, it is supposed to be 40 degrees today so that means the snow won’t last. I wish it would snow for days, maybe on my birthday it will do that, that would be amazing.