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Lies the Media Tells Us

It’s Sunday, I’ve had coffee, a lot of coffee, strong coffee, it’s a sign for me to get a few things off my chest.

Facebook, Twitter and Instagram are all working to irritate me this week, it seems all of my feeds are filled with memes regarding happily ever after. Which, if you know me, you know I don’t believe in.

It’s crap, it is pure crap that is fed to us from day one, Cinderella finds her prince, Sleeping Beauty is awakened by true loves kiss, Snow White, same plot line, stop the insanity.

There is no such thing as true love, there is no such thing as happily ever after, there is no such thing as finding someone who will love you through everything and stay faithful.

The world exalts cheaters, almost all love stories that are based on lies and cheating! Brad and Angelina, Johnny Cash and June Carter, everyone wants to say oh their love is so strong, look how they love each other.

Both couples had their roots in cheating, Brad cheated on Jennifer (much better human than Angelina IMHO), Johnny Cash cheated on his wife, left her with their children to go to this woman.

And people today exalt that, I am sickened by cheaters, there is a special place in hell for them, I hope.

Let me tell you what happens to the one cheated on, because no one in this world will tell you that.

They slowly die inside, the cheating must have been their fault, they weren’t pretty enough, smart enough, funny enough, accommodating enough, sexy enough, they just weren’t enough.

Their soul shrinks, they trust no one, not men, not women, because a woman caused this pain. And even though I am going to take a lot of heat for this, the woman could have said no to the cheating man. Their lives will be spent alone, due to the fact they will never trust another human, with the exception of their immediate family, by immediate I mean children and grandchildren.

Men will look, but if they find no one to cheat with, well, what happens then. I don’t know, because there will always be women that are skanky and willing to bed a man that is taken.

There is only one happily ever after and that is in the love of Jesus Christ, God, the Holy Spirit. For God so loved the world He sent His ONLY begotten son. To die for us, so that we may have everlasting life. That’s love, Jesus didn’t cheat on us, lie to us and lull us into complacency, thinking that our world would be perfect.

Our happily ever after comes literally after, after this life, this world.

If you are a young woman, stop looking for Mr. perfect, Mr. right, a knight in shining armor, they do not exist. In my experience they cannot help themselves, they will lie, cheat and will try and make it like you are the crazy one. Build your life to suit you, not someone else, make your own money, keep it separate and become self-sufficient.

Oh and the women that do this with them, they are the worst humans on the face of the planet. I don’t even think there is redemption for them, they are selfish, uncaring, self-loathing, ugly on the inside and it is working its way to the outside women.

My mom used to tell me that ugliness starts on the inside and works its way out, eventually the ugly inside shows on the outside, this is true. I could post a picture of an ugly one on the inside out, however, I don’t want to give her press. Also I don’t want to torture my readers with something so horribly ugly.

Typically, men will cheat with ugly women, do not look at yourself and think why would he choose that over me. There is no explanation, the women they choose, they do it on purpose, unattractive, unable to find anyone decent, they become the other woman. I don’t know why, I can’t pretend to get in their head because, well, I am not a liar, cheater or skank.

I have morals and I can take the high road, I can get on my soapbox, I can rant about this because I have NEVER cheated on anyone or with anyone.

If you are one of these women, who do this, I fully believe you will go to hell when you die. The reason being is you don’t see what you did as wrong, you see what the media has fed you, true love has no obstacles, even when the other person has made a promise to another.

Go to Church, read the Bible, get to know Jesus as your personal Lord and Savior and then maybe you will understand what you have done.

Until then, women, DO NOT believe the hype, there is no perfect mate, there is no happily ever after, there is no one true love. True love does not exist.

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Women

Ok, so, on Facebook, where we all get our information these days, someone posted a picture of a billboard. It read, “Monica Lewinsky’s ex-Boyfriend’s Wife For President!” The person who posted it thought it was funny. I do not. Before you get entrenched in politics, I am going to go on the record as saying I am not a fan of Hillary Clintons politics. I am however a woman, and on that has been cheated on and I don’t find this kind of demeaning sign funny.
Let me tell you why, as women we should be protecting each other, lifting each other up and only wanting good things for each other. Hillary did not deserve the very public humiliation she received from this time in her life. To constantly bring it up and throw it in her face every chance we get not only denigrates her accomplishments as a woman, it denigrates all of us. What we are saying by posting these types of things is we thing she deserved what she got. I do not believe any woman deserves what happened to her, she was very publicly humiliated, she chose to stay with her husband, and I hope she made him pay for his horrible choices.
As a society, as women, we have chosen to make her pay for what her husband did, and constantly remind her of it.
Why, as women, are we doing that? It is unconscionable; we really should be a sisterhood. Why are we not? Why do we look at another woman’s misery and insist on adding to it? If you disagree with her politics, her opinions, her actions, then blast her for those, not what her husband did to her.
This type of continued need women have to belittle each other, to knock each other down a peg or two, appalls me. Why? Is Anthony Weiner’s wife going to be subjected to this type of denigration? By other women?
One more reason I love Mary Kay, you don’t find this type of thing happening within our ranks. You find it in corporate America, a lot, in my J.O.B. there is a woman who is hell bent on ruining every woman in the office.
She needs Jesus, although I have found that a lot of the women who claim to have Jesus have this inane need to tear other women down.
Stop it, just stop, stop stepping out with men, who are taken, stop putting down women that have been cheated on, stop gossiping about your sisters. Instead lend a helping hand, reach out to each other, when you see a woman down, no matter the cause, lend an ear, a shoulder or hand.
It costs nothing to lift up a woman in need; you gain everything, self-worth, gratitude, and an eternal friend. We all need friends, we all need each other, this world was not designed for us to walk alone in it. And I do not mean in a romantic way, it takes a village, it means more than raising children, it takes a village for us all to survive. We must depend upon one another for survival, we all have different gifts, we all have different talents, I can do something someone else can’t and vice versa.
So when you see those types of things, no matter how tempted you are to laugh, remember, if you are willing to laugh at someone else’s misery, the person posting will probably laugh at yours.

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Public Apologizing

Yesterday Kristen Stewart issued a public apology for cheating, as did the married man she cheated with. It makes one think, should everyone who cheats on their partner have to issue a public apology? Or only when the photos are leaked?
I for one believe this to be an excellent idea, can you imagine how it would cut down on those cheating incidents if the perpetrators knew they would have to face the world and own up to their actions. Telling people that they are sorry they let them down, in the case of the married man he has to apologize to his wife and children. He has let them all down because why? Oh yeah he couldn’t keep his pants on. Seriously if you are going to betray the one that is there for you, supports you through the tough times and good times, if you are going to be doing these things, you should have to publicly apologize.
I seriously don’t get this one, this man’s wife is absolutely beautiful, while Kristen Stewart is not so much. Let’s face it, she has a horse face and the body of a young pubescent boy, while her married lover’s wife is an ex-model and played her mother in the Snow White movie. Somehow that just blows my mind, Kristen Stewart you are such scum, you destroyed not only your significant other’s world, you destroyed three other people as well. How does it feel? Do you feel good about yourself now?? Do the cheaters feel good about themselves when it is revealed that they are indeed scummy human beings? I would love to hear from women who have done this, and been caught. How do you feel? Please comment, we all want to know.