The other day I received a notification that my website had recently had a lot of hits. At first I was like what! Then I was like what? It seems someone did a google search on the person I used to date/engaged to and found my blog.
They went through and found every entry he was mention in, they didn’t leave a comment, so I have no idea who they are.
This is directed at that person, if you are a woman thinking of dating the aforementioned person, think twice.
I have not spoken to him in over 5 years, so I think it is time to tell a few things.
He is a consummate liar, he is a user, a gaslighter, an alcoholic and a serial cheater.
You are now forewarned, if you read my entries thinking I want him back, please stop. I do not, my life is peaceful, I can breath and have a beautiful life.
He will try and convince you that all of his problems were due to others, his problems are of his own making.
I know you are asking yourself why I didn’t delete those entries, well they are my life, I will not erase my past. Instead I learn from it and will not be repeating my past.
Ask yourself some hard questions, why does this person go from woman to woman, why can’t he sustain any relationships in his life.
Think long and hard before becoming involved with him, guard yourself, your finances, your mental health and your emotional wellbeing.
If you are a fixer, which I am, I want to fix everything and everyone, take a step back and understand you cannot fix every broken being on the planet.
Take a real look at yourself and work on you, be content being alone, the right person will be there, they will not “love bomb” you. They will respect your boundaries and if you have children, especially young children, protect them. Protect them from having a person who, when they become comfortable, will just scream when he does not get his way. Protect their mental and emotional wellbeing, be their mother, their protector.
If you have any questions, I am open to answer them as best I can, my email address is email@example.com. I will not publish anything here, but I will answer your questions.
I hope you have a great day and will think long and hard about your future.